Monday, September 23, 2013

How to be a man magnet

Go out looking for a good time-not your future husband:

Super-attractor rule no.1 : Don't go hunting. "Too many girls focus on meeting The One when they should be looking for a tasty drink & a fun night out. There's nothing more appealing than the girl who carries herself like she's having a good time. Who wouldn't want to be around her? So buy your own martini, & enjoy your self.


 One of the easiest ways to attract men is to smile. Your smile not only makes you friendly but also approachable. Furthermore you will appear more attractive and you will look like a fun person to sit and talk with. You need to practice smiling in front of a mirror in case you don’t know how to smile properly. Remember feel good about your smile and it will show guys that you are comfortable with the way you are.

Never bash other women: 

Being catty will get you nowhere with guys. Men want to know you're confident. Think about it: If you two start dating, he has a mom, sisters and female friends he'll want you to spend time with. Showing a guy that it won't be a nightmare to bring you to a family dinner is good first step.

Be easy:

We're not talking about Jersey Shore easy; we're talking easygoing. Guys are drawn to girls they can picture having fun with. 

Don't dress for girls:

The super trendy stuff you'd wear to impress your friends often leaves men cold. Maxi dresses, rompers are a thumps down if you're up for a date. What's universally sexy, according to men? A woman in white tee, cute-butt jeans and a pair of heels. Done and done. 

Be (Genuinely busy):

This trick's not about playing hard to get; it's about having so much great stuff going on in your world that he wants to be a part of it. Women who are genuinely busy feel more fulfilled, are happier and are more confident- three powerful magnets for attracting men. For instance, if a man has to choose between a clingy beauty and an unavailable average girl, he will choose average every time. 

Let him see your ambitious side: 

It's a corollary of "be busy": Guys like women who have passions in life, so show yours! Girls who are motivated to accomplish their dreams show drive and determination- guys love those qualities. 

Be the person you want to date:

Sounds simple, but you can't seek a man who is secure, self-assured and emotionally evolved if you're not all of those things yourself. It's basic relationship karma! If you wouldn't want to date yourself then how can you expect someone else to want to date you? If you haven't figured out who you are yet, you can't possibly know what you want in a guy. 

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